When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?

 

Maybe mistakes are what make our fate... without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart... and if you're very lucky, a plane ride away.

 

Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free til they find someone just as wild to run with them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

快乐就是别人跟不上你的节奏
烦恼忧愁早已远远抛在你身后
所有的机会
都不需要小心翼翼再去强求
记住这每天每夜
你要永远感到你很自由
你的爱情从不需要天长和地久
你的决定从不需要任何理由
蔚蓝的天空为你开放
幸运就在你的四周
记住你年轻就是一切
该潇洒尽情风流
日子长呀么长又长又长呀
多少好戏都等你来唱
天地它宽呀么宽又宽呀么
谁说还能够折断你的翅膀
在你的世界里随心所欲
别去理会满天的无聊话题
在你的世界里随心所欲
只要你能活出一个最好自己
在你的梦想里随心所欲
快来加入自由自在的一场游戏
在你的疯狂里随心所欲
一生是轻松的欢喜
不留下一点点痕迹
（一生是完整的欢喜
现在就随心所欲）

 

刚才在一个朋友的朋友的space上看到这句话：

 

      我和她的相识就在DJBAR，那时她穿着深绿棉袄、大红棉裤，头上扎着镶花边的头巾，手里握着一碗散发着清香的DJ，在BAR来往人群中仿佛一只孤傲的天鹅。不知道为什么，当我看到她时，心里竟是一阵莫名的触动，她的身影回荡在瞳孔里，似乎让我心里的某一部分消融。我走过去，坐在她的旁边，对老板说：“一杯DJ，加一点SALT，不要SUGAR。”

　　她转过头来，看着我这个邻座的男人，居然笑了。

　　“你也喜欢SALTDJ？”

　　那时候正是两段相声的间隔，BAR里一瞬间陷入微妙的沉静，我点了点头。

　　“对于一颗破碎的心，既然无法黏合，索性就让它消融吧。”她又笑了，笑容在DJ蒸腾的热气中是冰蓝色，我觉得。

　　“老板，来两碗豆浆，一碗甜的一碗咸的。”我们的身后有人大声喊道，我们两个人同时无奈地摇摇头，习惯了“DJ”的叫法，豆浆这个词是如此的刺耳，简直就是另外一个世界。